When you meet this girl, and you really like her and you think shes the one for you, please tell yourself NO SEX FOR 3 MONTHS. I dont care how much you want it, must have it, cant wait to have it, whatever. Youre not going to even approach the subject for 3 months, 90 days.
Why? Because as picky as you already are, everything that you do not know about her will come out in that 90 days. If you happen to be at her house and her phone keeps ringing and she answers it and says, Oh, it was the wrong number and this keeps happening, its not. Thats a bill collector calling.
If the phone keeps ringing and youre at her house and she says, I let the machine answer it, but the volume is turned down, its either some OTHER guy calling her or a bill collector. You will know the answer to this within 90 days.
If she has herpes or any kind of STD and doesnt want you to know, itll come out within 3 months, either by mistake, or shell give in and tell you. If you already slept with her, you wont be so lucky.
The more you act like you dont want it, the more it makes her want you. Why? Because every other guy has tried to jump her bones right away. This makes you different. It makes her desire you more. So by the time you finally get to the deed, you will definitely see fireworks. Forget the Yours and Mine lotion, you wont need it!!
If shes not broken up with an old boyfriend, or theres an exhusband or a husband, youll find out. 90days is a long time. If theres someone connected to her, youll see them. Theyll come out of the woodwork.
90 days also gives you time to get used to her idiosyncrasies and old habits. You will meet her friends (common friends stick together — you dont like her friends, you wont like her).
If you reach the 90 days, and youre still dating her, youve had a lot of conversations. You have had time to have almost all of your questions answered by now. Youre not rushing into anything and when youre not asking for information about something, people tend to offer it to you willingly unprovoked. Why? Because they like to talk about themselves.
At 90 days, youre either broken up, or its your 90-day anniversary! Let the games begin! Youll take your relationship to a whole new level. Good job.
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